HAPPY TIME DIVORCE
I’m not sure if I’m turning this into a booklet or not. I’ve still to complete the other booklet ( one of my books is usually 15-30k words. My booklet is more like 5k ) on the bicycle diet so I was thinking I’d write three booklets and combine them together into one book. Anyway, using divorce to your advantage as far as prepping goes. I’ve touched on this many times before, how it is cheaper without the wife than with, even accounting for alimony or child support. Now the only question is how much I can puff up the idea and how long I can make it. I’m not too sure what else to write about today. My brain is a bit mushy with being sick. Nothing major, just vomiting and diarrhea. I’m sure from a bug rather than food poisoning. The thing is, I’ve almost never been sick since I was a kid other than after moving to the sub-arctic and having a once a winter bout of sickness. It was bad enough yesterday I couldn’t even drink coffee which is a travesty in and of itself. It was pretty funny this morning though. Two miles from work and my gut knots itself up and screams at my brain-I’m going to blow! I’m pedaling as fast as I can while simultaneously trying to clinch the ‘ol sphincter. I imagine I had quite the facial expression.
Statistics show that one in two marriages end in divorce. I think the number is much higher, even accounting for serial divorcees. So many people don’t get legally married, trying to save themselves from financial castration, that there is a whole lot of separating NOT recorded. Of course, the laugh is on those living together because not all states refuse to recognize common law marriages ( Nevada is one, so I can leave the ball and chain anytime I want. I don’t always want to but the option is nice ). All this is of course the fault of Women’s Lib. But I won’t get started on that. Let’s just leave it at the fact that things are pretty screwed up marriage wise. If you are a male, you are at a distinct disadvantage. This is the way it should be because men have little control over their gonads and a firm grip on their wallets reminds them to stay true. Unfortunately, females are now no longer penalized for divorce like men are, but instead financially encouraged to do so. Hey, little judgment here. If I had ovaries instead of testicles I think I would have cashed in on the racket myself. Any behavior rewarded will be a growth industry. For all you guys ( there are a few instances where females are penalized but it is still the exception proving the rule ), you are just going to have to suck up your punishment for needing to mate. The FemiNazi’s, hating the very idea of a penis, have made sure all with said appendage suffer for their sins.
The system is unfair. You need to get over it. Divorce is hard enough. You thought you were marrying your soul mate. You thought you were investing in your life. You thought you were going to raise your kids. The only thing you are going to do is pay a very hefty ex-wife tax. Your children will be used against you and turned against you. Don’t waste any time railing against the system which you can’t change. You have enough on your plate saying goodbye to everything else. And you do have one thing going for you. It might not seem like much now, the severe shock you are going through ( or will very soon. I expect divorce’s will skyrocket as the economy dives. If the wife can’t get a paycheck from you she will get you in jail to get welfare )-and make no mistake because outside a death this is the worse stress you’ll go through in a civilized society, but the rainbow at the end of this pot of crap is that you will be better off financially soon. As strange as that seems. Oh, you’ll have much less disposable income. Granted. But what you will have is complete control over your budget for the first time. If you live smart, you’ll be in better straights financially than when you were married. Take it from someone that’s been there. The ex-bitch bled you dry and you had no idea because you spent every waking moment begging for the sex you never got enough of.
It is just like being in the trees not seeing it is a forest. Not until you walk away. While you were married, you shared in the lifestyle your wife demanded ( and of course to be fair, we happily agreed to for our own selfish reasons ). You stayed in the same nice apartment, drove the same nice car, watched the same nice cable TV package and ate the same yummy food. So I don’t mean to imply it was all one sided. My point is that if you had other interests in life, such as preparing for all that nice stuff to be taken away from you such as when the oil runs out or the economy is decimated by the greedy bankers, you had no means to do so. You had bought into a lifestyle. Either bartering sex ( and there is nothing wrong with that, nor with a female demanding control in exchange for sex. This is the way things have always been ) or like most of us, bartering for the chance for sex. Only after she left you can you see that there are other ways of living and if you now choose you can live frugally and have the means for prepping ( and, again, trust me. You will find another wife. I collect them, myself. They become more accommodating with age ). Do things right and you gain more freedom even as you lose money. I call it a bargain.
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